Registered Clinical Psychologist
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I thought finding a therapist I could connect with would be a challenge, however after my first session with Nick, I knew I had found the right person to support me on my journey. Nick immediately made me feel at ease. He creates a trusting, empathetic and supportive environment where I feel safe to share my innermost thoughts and feelings. Nick’s approach is gentle, kind and non judgemental. He challenges me to reflect on scenarios and unpack them myself, before offering me his perspective. Nick has a huge repertoire of knowledge, insight and experience which has enabled him to support me in many different areas. I have learnt a lot from Nick about emotions, positive response strategies and the complexity of the brain. He takes the time to explain the reasoning behind certain therapies so I understand how and why they are effective. His sessions make me feel empowered and prepared to respond to life’s many challenges. I have come such a long way and I can’t thank Nick enough for his role in my progress.
I would recommend Nick for any early 20s young male like myself. I personally have tried a few therapists prior to meeting Nick. The biggest fear of mine was the way some therapists attempt to trigger your emotions or anxiety. Going into a session with Nick I was not pressured into any uncomfortable situations. I could think logically and stay grounded. Usually amongst younger males (like myself) expressing challenging emotions and opening up fully can be challenging. Personally I would disconnect then the session would become worthless. However, with Nick our sessions became a relaxed discussion that helped me tie up loose ends about issues I could not understand alone. If you are hesitant about therapy because you are nervous, scared or do not want to feel immensely uncomfortable then I would send you in Nick's direction.
I have been struggling with PTSD for the last 4 years. In November I met Nick, who introduced me to EMDR. Initially it was scary and foreign. With Nick's support and the obvious benefits and improvements I noticed using EMDR, we stuck with it. I can confidently recommend and encourage anyone to try this type of therapy. Nick and EMDR are giving me my life back. I'm reinventing myself. My confidence is building, my anxiety and fears are diminishing. That light at the end of the tunnel is getting bigger and brighter with Nick and EMDR on my journey.
My experience with Nick has truly transformed my life and I am very appreciative of the time I spent with him in his inviting clinic each week. His approach was obviously client-orientated, with a respect and integration of my own insights into the healing experience. As a young male it is often hard to be vulnerable in a professional setting. However, Nick’s empathy was genuine and allowed me to be open and comfortable through the entire process. I would highly recommend Nick to anyone, particularly if they have struggled to form relationships with mental health professionals in the past.
I have struggled with depression on and off for many years and was therefore keen to try newer techniques such as EMDR combined with ACT. Nick is one of only a few practitioners who offers this technique in Christchurch. This has helped lessen the effect of a childhood traumatic event. Nick was steadfast in support of me getting some core self-care fundamentals established in my life before expecting to much from the therapy. I maybe like others have had the expectation that a solution will come from somewhere other than within. But it is clear it has to come from within. Nick has helped me realise the importance of establishing a healthy routine of exercise, eating, sleeping and socialising. Once this foundation is working well, then you will be better equipped to deal with tougher emotional challenges. Nick has helped me with all of this and I find him very open, friendly, caring and not adverse to having a laugh. I would readily recommend Nick to anyone looking for support on their journey.
Fundamentally, EMDR has been life changing for me in a way I could not have envisaged was possible. I'm 62 years old & over the past 30 years I've spent significant amounts of time & money on numerous 'Healing Models' in order to heal from childhood trauma. These included 'Psychoanalysis Talk Therapy' with a Psychologist, 'Psychodrama' workshops, & also 'More To Life' workshops. Whilst I experienced benefits from the above, I do now feel significant regret and a little peeved regarding the time & money I've spent, when compared to the healing and positive changes I've gained from EMDR in one year. My experience of EMDR is that it is a remarkably safe & effective tool for accessing, experiencing and expressing unconscious thoughts & emotions, which in so doing, has altered my perceptions of myself & my reality in a very positive, healing & life enhancing way. I feel privileged to have worked with Nick. He is the genuine article. There is no BS about him. He is very relatable & does not separate himself in the role of 'Professional' & you 'Client', whilst maintaining professionalism & professional boundaries at all times. I always felt safe and developed trust in his knowledge, skills & guidance. Probably the biggest impression I have of Nick was that he was non-judgemental and extremely kind and caring. To reiterate, it was a very positive experience. Thank you Nick & thank you EMDR.